Here it is: Is your child refusing school, melting down over homework, or panicking when plans change? It's easy to call it anxiety. But here's what most parents aren't told — up to 50% of children with ADHD also have anxiety, and even when it's real, it's often not the root. In this article, neurodivergent family coach Izabela Doyle explains what's actually driving the behaviour, and the one question that changes everything.